First coat of stain looked good with a couple streaks. Used fine steel wool then applied second coat. Looked better you can see the grain with little spots of streaks. Used steel wool again and added third coat..looks horrible. If I steel wool it more so it is really dull then add 4th coat will it look better or worse? Do I restrip and do it again? I am really getting discouraged and I don’t have money to buy new cabinets and I don’t want to paint them black.